Parents play an important role in the success of a child's surgical
experience. Children who are appropriately prepared for surgery tend to
have less anxiety and fear. Good preparation involves clear explanations
and age-appropriate information.
In most cases, being allowed to explore the waiting room and pre-op
room, and to touch medical equipment and supplies immediately before
their surgery is sufficient preparation for this age group.
The guidelines below may be helpful as you and your family prepare for your child's surgery.
- Parents of infants should prepare themselves emotionally for the upcoming surgery.
- Ask questions and educate yourself about the procedure scheduled for
your child. Once you know what to expect, you will be more relaxed.
Children as young as six months watch their parents for emotional cues
to interpret an unfamiliar situation. If you are relaxed and
comfortable, your child is more likely to be relaxed and comfortable.
- As a parent, you know your child best. Please be sure to share with
staff what comforts your child, how he likes to be held, eating habits,
etc.
- Use simple language when talking to your child about surgery.
- Bring your child's favorite comfort item(s) from home (i.e. blanket, stuffed animal, pacifier, soft music, etc.).
- Babies often have a hard time being separated from their parents.
Reassure your child you will be close by and as soon as the surgery is
over you will be next to him again.
Children in this age group often have a hard time waiting prior to
surgery in the pre-op room. Many parents find that lowering the
stimulation in the room and providing comforting items can help soothe
their child. Consider turning down the lights in the room, wrapping your
child in a warm blanket and playing soft music.